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3 Secrets to Maximizing Opportunities & Stepping Out of Our Own Way

“Laughing Hearts,” Audrye OmArt: Art That Opens the Heart, reminds us that we are laughing hearts on this Earth.

Moms and everyone, how many times have you/I/we said we want something, made the preparations, gotten ourselves there, done the internal and external work, then, when we’re there, what do we do?  Do we maximize every opportunity?  Do we allow ourselves to receive our good?  Do we sabotage ourselves?  Do we do less or allow less than whatever is possible?

To my absolute “horror,” despite how much work I have done and do on myself, still there can be occasions when I omit doing the obvious that could make such a difference for both other people and myself.  At this point, however, I take stock, do an internal interview, to seek the cause of this behavior.  There was a time I would pummel myself.

What about you?  Do you check yourself out when you realixe that you either made a mistake, omitted doing something that needed doing, did something haphazardly that required more attention, or in any other way behaved in any manner that had you feeling that you had been less than you are?

Pretty much most of us have.

Here are THREE SUPER SECRET TIPS to Maximize Opportunities and Step Out of Our Own Way, and Bring In Our Good!

1. LOVE YOURSELF.  Yes, even in the face of something you could have done better.  Even if you are feeling embarrassed.  Even if….    Stop blaming yourself!  Learn what sabotaging internal dialog (ID – remember? The Internal Tyrant!) had been chattering along either boisterously or whisperingly.    Hear this “junque” so we can behave better than any sabotaging behavior the ID may be pushing.  Are you noticing any old family patterns, or genetic karmic patterning?  Perhaps regarding relationships, arguing, money, forgetfulness, overtalking, invalidating, addictions?  Congratulate yourself; you have discovered treasure.  Now to enhance yourself and everyone else with it.

2.  TAKE CORRECTIVE ACTION.  This can be seeing the old pattern, shifting it, and forgiving yourself/ourselves.  Make that phone call.  Tell the truth in an honoring way to yourself and everyone else.  Take an action that will get you beneficial results.  Just about everything can be transformed.  It starts within.  Corrective action is, first and foremost, working on yourself.  I am doing second chakra work on myself to shift some ancient patterns that I came in with and that were inadvertently enhanced by my background.  Refuse to blame anyone else for your own stuff.  Be responsible, loving yourself all the while, clean/clear yourself, and take appropriate loving, effective, efficient action.

3.  SAY THANK YOU! Be grateful for this soul initiation.  You are growing! This is great!  Refrain from allowing a glitch on the journey to get or keep you down.  You are a Being of Light!  You are a Soul!  You are made of Creator Stuff!  Say thank you to yourself, others, God/dess for your new awareness and actions.  Pause, if need be.  Regroup.  Realign internally, and take gentle, powerful, authentic steps in both the inner and outer world.  We are all learning.  Yes, absolutely, pulsate with gratitude.

Moms, everyone, we are going to sometimes find ourselves in a thicket, sometimes of our own making, sometimes as part of a larger situation.  Learn!!!! Honor and love yourself and others!  Be truthful, with integrity and impeccability.  Take appropriate action!  Be grateful for this opportunity to evolve.  Enlightened beings know that in the third dimension, we are on a journey.

Many blessings to you, and may your journey be fabulous!!!

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Love,

Mama Heart                                                                                                                                         GoddessHeart

Audrye

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Goddess Energy Is Everywhere!

Goddess!  What does this word – “Goddess” — conjure up in your mind?  Your heart?

 

How comfortable are you, are any of us, with using “Goddess” in everyday language?  What is Goddess to you?

 

Have you embraced Goddess energy in your life?  If so, how?  If not, why?

 

“Goddess” is the female vibration of the Creative Energy, the Source of All, that underlies and permeates all of third-dimensional reality as we know it at this time in our evolution.

 

Yet, sometimes we may be loath to say “Goddess.”  Why?  What benefit or detriment does the dearth of Goddess usage bring?

 

Because so many of us have been acculturated to using a male noun or designation to indicate the Prime Cause, often this same us can be unaware that we have actually been conditioned about what reality is.  Most of us like to think of ourselves as free thinkers, immune to outside conditioning.  Especially in theU.S., we tend to pride ourselves on being independent.  How independent are we?

 

We are conditioned from the moment of our birth.  We are even conditioned in the womb.  How healthy is mom?  What are mom’s emotions?  What kind of language or attitude does dad use?  Is he around?  Is the baby’s home happy and harmonious, or violent and vicious?  These early conditioning examples show no one lives in a vacuum.

 

What about Goddess?  Does this energy exist?  Is the universe and the Creator of all actually male?  If the All in All were totally male, where would female come from?  For women to exist would be impossible.  It’s analogous with making a being out of X + Y chromosomes when only Y exists.

 

Clearly, Goddess exists.

 

Ladies, stand up.  What are we?  Are we the male energy of the universe coalesced into physical form?  Or, are we something else?

 

Thank you, Lovely Ladies.  Please sit, and be at ease.

 

Yes, women (womyn, womin), ladies, girls, are some of the embodiments of the female vibration of the universe, Goddess.  We women are, by and large, compassionate, cooperative, sharing, intuitive, intelligent, nurturing, allowing, strong, vulnerable, open, conceiving, birthing, peaceful, fertile and fecund, receptive.  ‘Tis true that men can also have these qualities. We all know that men are considered to be brave, assertive, protective, pioneering, analytical, advancing, more.

 

We are at a point in our evolution as we enter the Age of Aquarius for us to embrace ALL of who we are.  Our very Earth in her generosity births plants, minerals, water, air, fulfills all our needs, warmed and blessed by our fiery brilliant Star, the Sun.

 

This includes Goddess.  Goddess has been personified by many deities in all cultures and religions.  No religion can survive without Goddess being acknowledged, loved, honored and respected, especially in today’s world.

 

Why does one religion have someone its adherents call the Mother of God?  How can God have a mom, if God is the All in All?  Where did this Mom come from?  This is a way we have purposefully confused ourselves to find a way to fit Goddess energy into reality, without actually saying it.

 

Christianity has elevated Mary to Goddess status without using these words.  Jews have the Shekinah, the Female Vibration of Sacred Spirit.  Hinduism has many Goddess appellations.

Shakti, Quan Yin, Athena, Isis, Aphrodite, Osun, Lakshmi, the Great Mother are ancient personifications.

 

All religions have Goddess energy portrayed, even though most religions still refer to the All in All as male.

 

We women are supposed to understand and know that this male designation includes us.  I have to laugh at this often unacknowledged example of undistinguished male domination, or, succinctly put, sexism.  We are all affected by this.

 

It’s time to shift paradigms.  Paccchhhh……  Transformation time!!!

 

What about saying that Goddess also includes men?  Actually, this is true, as even the word, Goddess, has the word God within it, whereas the word God omits Goddess entirely.

 

This are some examples to indicate that Goddess lives, exists, as a concept, a possibility, a reality, an ideal, and that without Goddess, nothing happens.  It is Goddess Energy that births and brings forth life, with the impetus of God energy to light the spark.  Both work and exist together.

 

Why am I speaking of Goddess?  For people and the world to know and experience peace, harmony, sustainability and love, we have to embrace this so-special and critical aspect of all our natures.  Goddess is the nurturing, the sustaining, the protective, the healer.  Men that have this strong within themselves, even with strong masculine, have embraced the Goddess aspect within themselves.

 

I am a woman, a living sample of Goddess, born under the Sun Sign of Cancer in both Western and Vedic astrology. We women, with our innate intuitive connection to the Divine, especially the Divine Feminine, are harbingers of our new Quantum Age.

 

Men, too, are filled with Goddess energy, just as women have God energy.  Our hormones attest to this.  Everyone has male and female hormones, in different proportions and ratios.

 

Is anything scary about Goddess?  Anything “frightening” is a mindset.  Goddess embraces, softens, allows and loves the world.  Yes, we have Kali, the Destroyer, which also makes sense.  Without the death and reabsorption of plants, bones, everything, we would be living in massive natural clutter.  Instead, we have an in-built recycling system.  Without Goddess, we could be marauding monsters rampaging about.  Have we seen examples of this?

 

My suggestion?  Embrace Goddess!!!!  Call on Her!!!!  Worship this aspect of Creation!!!  Love this within yourself, ourselves and others!!!!  Use this language in our lives.  Balance beautiful Goddess energy with wonderful God energy within you, within us, enhancing our wholeness and enlightenment.

 

So, I ask again:  Goddess!  What does “Goddess” conjure up in your mind?  Your heart?

 

How much more can you, me, we be enriched with Goddess energy filling us and helping guide our lives?

 

Thank you very much, Goddesses!!!!!  May we all be blessed!!!!

 

Love,

 

MamaHeart

Audrye

www.TheMothersManual.com

www.Audrye.org

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Audrye is the author of THE MOTHER’S MANUAL, A SPIRITUAL AND PRACTICAL GUIDE TO CHILD REARING AND MOTHERHOOD.  She is also co-author of FOREVER YOUNG AT 50+, THANK GOD I BOOK 1, THANK GOD I AM AN EMPOWERED WOMAN.  She is a Mom and Grammie, as well as an artist, seminar leader, speaker, health and wellness coach, clairvoyant-spiritual therapist, global life consultant.

Love Notes to My Daughter and My Mom

However much I tell my daughter that I love her, let me tell her and all of us how much I love her.  Do my mom, also.

By the time her dad and I created the pregnancy that resulted in my wonderful daughter, I was in my 30s, at the time something considered somewhat outrageous.  I was so ecstatic!

My darling girl was birthed amids fanfare and hoopla, as she opted to arrive “prematurely,’ though perfectly for her and all of us.  What with placenta abruptia, there was calm collected drama, as she debuted six weeks before due date, perfect, whole and complete.  My mom walked through the entire nursery and pronounced my daughter the best of the bunch.

My mom and I had often had an adversarial relationship.  For her to be the mother of a mystic intuitive was, perhaps, unexpected.  I would offer advice when I was slightly larger than a tadpole; she would frequently toss it aside.  When, as an older woman, preparing for her final times on this Earth and she asked me and my sister how she came to be where she was, I answered her lovingly and metaphysically, and my sister responded mundanely and practically.

 

So often, my mother would tell me she didn’t understand what I was saying.  I would slow my words, break down the meaning into smaller bites, and deliver it.  Then, I would tell her that I was speaking to that part within her that DID understand.  She would get quiet, opening the way.  I would say what I was guided to say, and stop.  Then my mom’s energy, consciousness and comprehension would shift, she’d look at me, sometimes shrug, and we’d be back to what passed for normal with us.

My daughter was brilliant, bodacious, beautiful and beguiling right from the start.  How many babies weigh in at 3 lbs 12 oz, and are fully healthy?  My mom — and dad — loved her from the get-go, even though they refused to even meet her father, my former mate.

I admired my daughter’s courage, her cuteness, her capabilities.  When she reached 10 lbs, I knew she was here to stay.  Now, a magnificent young woman with children of her own — my precious grands!!!! — she knows how to take care of her family both financially and lovingly.  Finances had been less than my strongest suit.  As a child, she painted, sang, danced, made jewelry and pottery, played sports, and excelled at school.  I became her mom/dad, when I left my former spouse, and then, some years later, he passed on.

Her courage in continuing, and, yes, I did get a therapist, was awe-inspiring to me.  My daughter’s strength, gentleness, mind, sparkling eyes, and so much more bring absolute joy to my heart.

My mother’s senior gentleness, openness, appreciation of me, were balm to my soul.  We may say that we don’t need our mom’s love, and that is a lie.  Inside all of us, we all need, seek, crave the love of our mothers, even if we differ with some of who they and we are.  Unimportant.  There is a biological, chemical, spiritual, emotional, energetic, karmic link that is life-altering between moms and daughters.

I urge you, whoever you may, whatever your life story, heal everything within you regarding your mother (and father), whether your mom is alive or passed on.  This is for your greater good, and for life on this planet.

If you would like to be the most illustrious you possible, allow this transformation to occur.  If you would like to give your daughter — or son — one of the best gifts imaginable, this is it.  A clear, centered, present, loving, in-the-moment, fully-present, multidimensional, consicous and aware, healthy you!!!!

Thank you and may you be blessed in every way possible.

 

Love

MamaSource

www.TheMothersManual.com

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Healing 3 Types of “Monster” Moms or “Poisonous” Parents

What can a mom or dad do to earn being called a “monster” or “poisonous”?

 

Let’s look at Seven Types of “Monster” Moms or “Poisonous” Parents

 

1.  The Bully Mom or Dad

This is the parent, who, even with the best of intentions, forces her or his child to do what s/he wants exactly in that moment.  “Eat your food now!!!! Everyone is waiting for you to finish!!! You are holding up everyone being ready to leave for the movies!!!”  Any of this said with a threatening tone to a child in a high chair or to a toddler, even if Mom or Dad is on her or his seeming last nerve, can absolutely be termed a bully parent.

 

Will the child comply?

 

At some point, yes, so the parent can justify her or his behavior, with the proverbial, “See?  It worked!  Now my daughter (or son) is behaving nicely.  I was right to do what I did.”

 

A better approach is to find out why the child is resisting or refusing to do what is requested.  Also, for Mom or Dad to examine their request, determining if the request is required to be completed at that very second, if there’s another way to speak to the child, if there’s something going on within the child that needs to be addressed.  None of us operate solely on the surface.  Babies, toddlers, children operate on many levels, including when they are preverbal.

 

2.   The “Ridiculing” Mom or Dad

 

“You are being ridiculous wearing that outfit.  You look like an idiot!” says a seemingly well-meaning parent, in her or his zeal to have their offspring look good, in their eyes, and what the parent takes to the eyes of their friends, workers, neighbors, society.

 

“Everyone is able to run at this age.  Why are you so slow?  Are you just stupid?” jeers another parent to her/his child, in the parent’s effort to get his/her child up to speed, in the parent’s world overview.

This type of behavior absolutely undermines the child’s sense of self, as well as invalidates the child’s progress.  Yes, we can all feel impatient with ourselves, our children, society, anything.  This is less than no justification to mock or ridicule a child.  This can also be seen as an aspect of the bullying parent.

 

If you find yourself doing any of this — and the best of parent can slip sometimes — immediately rectify it.  Apologize to your child for your words, attitude and behavior.  Let your child know you love him/her, and that you, too, are constantly learning.  Then find a more enlightened way to express what needs to be done.  If you need help, read www.TheMothersManual.com or attend the Enlightened Mom Teleseminar series and Enlightened Mom Coaching Program.

3.  The “Impossible-to-Please” Mom or Dad

I will take this right out of my own life.  When I was a child, I earned report-card grades in the 90s in all my subjects.  My mom would see this, and, though she said, “Good work,” she then added, “Why don’t you get higher?  Is this the best you can do?”  This was said in less than an approving, loving voice.

 

This may have stimulated another kind of child, encouraging her or him to work harder.  For me, however, I felt that my mom would never be satisfied with what I did.   I needed some acknowledgment and validation.  What happened was that as I got older, I felt my mom had no concept of what I did, what it tood for me to do any of what I did, and that she had no sense of how to actually encourage.

 

Of course, this stemmed from her upbringing where she was belittled and made to feel less-than from her mom.  She never “worked on” this, and continued this behavior with her children, thinking that she was doing a great job.

 

So you know, before my mom left the Earth, she and I had more than made up, forgiven ourselves and one another for our sometimes clashing behavior.  I love her and treasure her.  That little Scorpio Dragon was a great “adversary” who taught me how to deal with challenging people.

 

Any of us can fall into these three categories.  Any of us can still be feeling the effects of these and other categories of “Monster” Mom or “Poisonous Parent.”   If you would like more tips on how to heal from what you experienced from your Mom, and to avoid perpetuating this pattern, contact me at 1 888.757.3223 or 1 888.75 PEACE.  Also, www.TheMothersManual.com.

 

To have peace on the planet, we start at home, within ourselves and our families.

 

Many Bessings & Love,

 

MamaHeart

Audrye

 

Mom Freedoms, Considerations, Responsibilities

So much has been in the media about moms lately.  Is it okay to breastfeed in public without a coverup?  When is it good to discuss sex and sexuality with your child or children?  How many children is a good amount?

There is no completely “right” answer for everyone or for anyone all the time.

Let’s look at the queries above.  Is it okay to breastfeed in public without a coverup?  Actually, insofar as I know, it’s totally legal to do so.  Moms are within their/our rights to breastfeed publically.  Is this necessarily a good idea without a coverup in all circumstances?  I say, no, as we do have to take into account mainstream’s attitudes.  I certainly recomment having a light appropriate coverup.  This would be completely appropriate in every kind of circumstance I can currently imagine.

Yes, I know; some women feel a coverup is an infrigement on our freedom and rights.  We all, however, live in a society, and, whether we choose it or not, we do have to take into account others’ feelings.  A simple coverup is sufficient.  Yes, I know also that too many people seem to be more comfortable with guns than breastfeeding, and this is an issue we are in process of shifting.

Depending on where you are, I suggest carrying a coverup with you.  This way, everyone is comfortable, including Mom and Baby, the two most important persons here.

MamaHeart — me! — will discuss sexuality and appropriate amount of children in future posts.

These posts will be coming at minimum once a week.  I now have a new Web Woman, and I’m learning a new way to post these blogs.

What are your feelings?  Opinions?  Feedback?  Why?  What have you noticed?

Did you know that I am now doing Enlightened Mom Teleseminars?  If you are interested, certainly contact me.  You can always call 1 888 757 3223 or 1 888 75 PEACE.

I am also sending out Life Tips.  If you would like to receive these, also contact me.

Please let me know what topics in any area you would like to see here.

Thank you and have a blessed day.

Blessings,

Audrye

MamaSource

www.TheMothersManual.com

www.Audrye.org

 

 

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